Saturday, June 28, 2014
6 months
Thursday, December 26, 2013
Last day in Brazil
Hi there. I am alive. I did make it through. I will not lie: it has been rough. There have been tears, and exploding microwaves, payments made in the nature of thousands of reais, broken glass, and promises unkept. Moving is never easy, but moving internationally is a whole other challenge. My husband is hoping that they let us out of the country tonight. We've been told for 2 years that our permanent visas have been approved, and our names have been published, but we haven't yet been called to go to the Policia Federal and pick up the documents. On December 23rd at about 4:00 pm, my husband realized that our "protocol" (i.e. little piece of paper that is very important) has expired, and there wasn't time to renew it. My hope is that this is not an issue to leave the country. But one never knows with these kind of things. So send up some good thoughts tonight at about 9:00 pm that it all get works out.
But we did get out of our apartment. We sold everything except for 12 suitcases and the cello. We delivered the car to it's buyer. We have no keys left. We have said goodbye lots of time, and laughed and cried with good friends. We are going to miss this place that has been home. With all it's challenges and cultural idiosyncrasies, it has been our home and and we made our place here. Before everyone wakes up this morning, I'm going to go into the kitchen and wash and cut a deliciously ripe Haden mango. I'm going to eat the whole thing by myself, celebrating realized dreams, and thanking God again for the all that I've been given.
Monday, December 2, 2013
Moving sale
Venda-se! Ainda tenho uma mesa com 6 cadeiras, uma secretária, duas camas, uma mesinha, artigos de cozinha, livros e arte para vender até o dia 13 de dezembro.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/For Sale! I've still got things for sale: a dining room table and six chairs, a desk, two beds, kitchen items, art, books. Look here:
The best way I've found to sell things here is by posting nice pictures on Flickr and then making a google doc to keep things organized. Garage sales don't happen here. Feel free to spread the word!
Sunday, November 24, 2013
We're moving
I've been trying to think of some nice, creative way to announce our departure, but I've been just too busy. We're moving to the United States. There were many factors involved in our process of making our decision, and the main factor is that we want to be closer to our families. We moved to Brazil with the hope that we could show our children a different culture, to give them the experience of seeing a different part of the world, and to give them the chance to learn the language and hopefully thrive within another culture. I would have to say that for the most part, we have learned that. And I feel pretty proud of the fact that we have a good car, a nice apartment, and we are mostly satisfied with the schools the children attend. We have figured out how to make a life here, and that is an accomplishment.
And now we are leaving. Are we crazy??!!???
Probably. But I would venture to say that everyone is a little crazy. But I don't want to address that topic here. My husband and I feel like we've had the chance to teach our children one of our values by living in Brazil. And now it's time to show them that family is very important. We have been saying it, but now we can show it. And we are demonstrating to them that sometimes family is so important that we willingly and joyfully make sacrifices.
Here are some of the details--
Date of departure from Brazil: December 26
Last night we will sleep in our apartment: December 12 (the rest of the time will be spent between friend's houses and hotels)
Where we will move to? Cashmere, Washington
What we are doing for Christmas? we don't know
What I will do for work? look for a position in a school, and work on certification/a master's
What the husband will do? TBA
What the kids will do? go to school
How we will keep up the Portuguese? find some Brazilians, Skype, videos, books
What will happen to the hamster? a friend is taking him
Have we sold the car? yes
Can anyone rent our apartment? talk to Adimoveis
Want to buy our stuff? Send me an email, but most of it is sold. I don't deal with Correios, so I don't ship.
I'm feeling pretty overwhelmed with the sheer volume of stuff I have to do in the next month, especially before we move out of our apartment. Moving out of an apartment in Brazil is a pain in the hiney (you have to pay a lot of money and paint and fix everything). And then I have to do report cards, help with 3 talent shows, 2 graduations, do all my normal work, help my children with their final projects, and take care of all the normal things of life. Not to mention that it's VERY important for the children to have time to say goodbye to their friends, so I'm scheduling parties, sleep overs, final play dates and good bye presents. Aaaaaahhhh!
So, all to say, you may not see very much of me in the next month. But my husband has taken to blogging, so read what he has to say here.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Açaí (ah-sah-eeee)
In the past 6 months or so, we've noticed a sudden increase in the amount of these snack shops in Belo Horizonte. They are popping up everywhere, and they usually have the same kind of signage (a rectangular sign with images of fruits in the background) and the açaí included in the name of the store. I think that there is a new chain in town, but now people are piggy-backing on the idea, and without much creativity. In fact, I've seen at least one store open RIGHT NEXT to another new store. My oldest daughter loves to tell me all the names of the different stores, because some of them are just downright silly. Here's a list of what she remembers:
1. Rajaçaí--the açaí place on Avenida Raja
2. Megaçaí
3. Daçaí
4. Taçaí
5. Topaçaí
6. Refresçaí
7. Savaçaí--in Savassi
8. Praçaí
9. Peçaí
10. And our favorite, Thaçaí, because Brazilians have a very hard time pronouncing the "TH" sound.
If I opened my own açaí place, I would called it "Saci açaí" (pronounced "saw-see-ah-sah-eeee") and have a picture of Saci frolicking amongst the fruits, eating açaí. Anyone else have a names they can add to my list, or a creative name for an açaí business?
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Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Suco de Cupuaçu
I mentioned in my last post that I had Cupuaçu ice cream, and that inspired me to try out some different flavors of fruit pulp to make juice. We tried the Cupuaçu blended with water and sugar. A little bit tangy, but refreshing and enjoyable.
Cafe do Mirante
| Me and my sister, "mirante" in the background |
| Picking Jabuticaba |
| The library bus at Jeca Tatu |
On the way back to BH, we stopped at Jeca Tatu, a restaurant/museum unlike anything we've ever seen before. There are several old American school buses that have been converted to rooms that hold books, memorabilia, old records, and all sorts of fascinating stuff. Well worth the stop.
We also stopped for ice cream at Arte e Manha. There were signs everywhere along the road, advertising their unique ice cream flavors, such as violet, guava and cheese (romeu e julieta), rose, and many unique Brazilian fruit flavors. I had graviola (aka soursop) and cupuaçu (tropical rainforest fruit somewhat related to cacãu) and seriguela and cajá. My sister had the goiaba e queijo. I'd highly recommend any of they unique flavors.
We had a great day!
Monday, October 28, 2013
The dilemma of raising children in Brazil
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| Write on the board the word MORALS They stole the chalk, teacher! |
I'm a little behind, but this article was circulating Facebook a while back:
http://veja.abril.com.br/noticia/educacao/o-dilema-da-criacao-dos-filhos-a-etica-compensa
Now I can't say I've "studied" the article, nor that my quick scan of it has allowed me to fully understand the depth of the issue. But I can say that I think I get the main idea, which is that Brazilian parents face a significant challenge while trying to raise their children. Parents want to (and have the responsibility to) teach their children values, but they are doing so within a country where the "Lei de Gerson" (take advantage of everything and everyone whenever you can). Essentially, those of us living in Brazil know that you really have to be looking out for number one here, because it really is a dog-eat-dog world. The expectation is that others will take advantage of you. They will take your son's stuffed animal one minute after it falls out of his bedroom window (true story, unfortunately). Salespeople will over charge you for inferior products. Those trying to buy a car will try to falsify documents (hence, the elaborate laws around verification and the existence of Cartorios). They will throw trash in front of your apartment. Elected officials steal money without shame. Now, I realize that I'm speaking in generalizations, and there are exceptions, and there are many, many Brazilian citizens who are making the hard choices to be think of others before thinking of themselves. But the article interviews parents who are afraid that if they teach their children morals, if they teach their children to obey laws, to follow the rules, to be honest, that their children will fall behind. Parents fear that their children will be taken advantage of if they don't learn how to operate within the reality of the society. So which is better, to uphold a higher morality, or to teach your children to be shrewd and successful within a culture of corruption?
As a foreigner with children, and as a teacher working in a school, I find this a particularly interesting challenge, and a cultural issue. I'm not trying to make a value judgement here (I could, but I will avoid). But I think that we face a difficult situation. I want my children to grow up to be honest, responsible citizens who care for those around them. And yet, we live in a culture where we are daily faced with a multitude of examples of dishonesty, irresponsibility, and a total lack of respect for others. How do I reconcile this?
And apparently the "levar vantagem" (take advantage of) came from this:
As a foreigner with children, and as a teacher working in a school, I find this a particularly interesting challenge, and a cultural issue. I'm not trying to make a value judgement here (I could, but I will avoid). But I think that we face a difficult situation. I want my children to grow up to be honest, responsible citizens who care for those around them. And yet, we live in a culture where we are daily faced with a multitude of examples of dishonesty, irresponsibility, and a total lack of respect for others. How do I reconcile this?
And apparently the "levar vantagem" (take advantage of) came from this:
Saturday, October 26, 2013
Museums: CCBB Belo Horizonte and Escher at Palacio das Artes
My husband and I had the chance to see the exhibit ELLES: Mulheres artistas na coleção do Centro Pompidou (ELLES: Women Artists from the Centre Pompidou, Paris). It was the opening exhibit for the new Banco do Brasil Centro Cultural in Belo Horizonte. The museum itself is nice; the Banco do Brasil updated one of the old, historic buildings in the Praça Liberdade. But the structure seemed a little cold and basic to me. Nothing spectacular. I don't want to be a downer, because they did remodel it, and it is nice. It's just not super nice.
But the exhibit was AMAZING! The exhibit started in Paris, and then went to Seattle, and was here in Belo Horizonte. The exhibit "tells" the story of modern/contemporary art through the work of women artists. My favorite pieces were by Suzanne Valadon, Guerrilla Girls, and Frida Kahlo. The Kahlo was very small, but it was humbling to stand before a work by an artist that I admire so deeply. The exhibit is over now, but it would be worth it to keep an eye on upcoming exhibitions. Check it out here.
| Dora and Sebastian |
The other exhibit that we visited is at the Palacio das Artes, called "A Magia de Escher" or "The Magic of Escher." It is still showing until November 17th, and if you have a chance, you should check it out. It's a great compilation of works by M.C. Escher, very kid friendly, and very interactive. And there are several parts that you are allowed, even encouraged to take pictures. My math-loving kids loved the tessellations, optical illusions, and different perspectives.
I'll also mention that the newly remodeled Cine Theatro Brasil recently opened in downtown Belo Horizonte. I haven't been yet, but it looks very nice. I also just read that they are showing "Guerra e Paz" ("War and Peace") by Brazilian Artist Candido Portinari. It is the last time it will be shown in Brazil before heading to Paris and then to return to the headquarters of the United Nations in New York, where the piece is permanently displayed.
Some great things are happening in the arts in Belo Horizonte!
Monday, October 14, 2013
Van Dyke Mango
Saturday, October 12, 2013
Cristina
This is a sad post. I've been thinking about how to write this for over a month, and I'm still at a loss.
We moved into our apartment in the Gutierrez neighborhood a little over a year ago. Within a week of moving here, we started to notice Cristina. She lived on our street, and she was....well, she was a character. A very unique and eccentric person. Some might say crazy. But a wonderful Brazilian woman with a large and lovable personality. She had 4 Dalmatians. She liked to walk them without their leashes, and they were hyper and ran like crazy. She yelled at them. She wore biking clothes most of the time, as in spandex biking shorts, gloves, shoes with toe clips, and a bike helmet. Sometimes she rode a bike. Most of the time she didn't. Cristina talked to herself. Everyone knew her. She was friendly, and liked to talk to the children. She didn't know that my Portuguese was limited, and most often I didn't understand what she was talking about. I just smiled and nodded.
On August 16th, she was out walking, like she usually did. She was crossing Avenida Francisco Sá at the end of our street, and was hit by a car. She refused help, even though she had been injured. She returned to her apartment by herself, and passed away.
There are so many things wrong about this. There is a TOTAL disregard for pedestrians in this city. Cars do not stop. Crosswalks are totally disregarded. I know this is not the case in all of Brazil, but for some reason in Belo Horizonte pedestrians seem to have no rights. Last year at Christmas, there was a big sign in our neighborhood that essentially read, "For Christmas, be kind and respect traffic laws." The city started a campaign about 6 months ago to raise awareness and to encourage drivers to respect traffic laws. I did see an article (can't find it now) talking about the INCREASE in injuries and deaths during the campaign (not saying that the campaign was causing it, but that the campaign wasn't really working). As a person that cares about the condition of our planet and a concerned citizen, I love walking and try to walk as much as possible. We moved to Gutierrez so we wouldn't have to drive so much. My husband uses public transportation to get to work. The children complain all the time, but we are trying to show environmental responsibility and to take care of our bodies by exercising.
But I am afraid. I have become much MUCH more concerned about crossing the street. I don't trust any drivers. I know that pedestrians do foolish things at times, but the ones with the power here are the drivers. I really REALLY don't understand what drivers are thinking speeding up when they see a mother and two children in a crosswalk. I don't understand why 20 cars speed by when I'm attempting to cross a busy intersection without a light. I don't understand why cars run through red lights, or when motorcycles start entering the intersection before the light has changed to green. From my perspective, it just seems like drivers don't care, and they are willing to put other people at risk for their own desires. And I don't understand how someone could hit a pedestrian, and allow her to walk away, when it is clear that she is not well. There is too much of an attitude that "everyone does it" and too much cutting of corners and disregarding common sense. Honestly, I think what needs to happen is fines and stricter laws. Before the Lei Seca, it was common to see people driving down our streets holding a beer. But now motorists know that if they are caught with even a trace of alcohol in their system, there will be serious consequences, and drinking and driving has decreased. The only way to really change behavior is to create stricter laws, and then to ENFORCE them. But it seems like pedestrian deaths are not important enough to Belo Horizonte for this to happen. In the meanwhile, I am going to stop at crosswalks for pedestrians. I am going to yield to walkers. And I'm going to educate my children, and any one else who will listen.
Sinto falta Cristina.
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
an efficient morning
About to head to work, but had to brag to the world my readers about convenience in Brazil! Yes, there are days when things come together efficiently! This morning I was able to accomplish the following before 8:20 am
1. Wake up, shower, get ready, make vitaminas for the children, eat breakfast.
2. Respond to some emails.
3. Go to the bank to get cash.
4. Go to the grocery to get food and a few surprises for Dia das Crianças (children's day, October 12th!)
5. Go to the drugstore to pick up some things.
6. Go to the corner hardware store to get a new chuveiro (shower head)
Now the husband is changing the shower head! Hooray!
Saturday, September 28, 2013
complacency?
http://econ.st/18skeVM
Interesting, and in my opinion, accurate evaluation of things in Brazil.
I do disagree though, about protests during the World Cup. I think that there will be protests. And I also think that there is a degree of complacency among citizens post protest. There was a wave of anger and people took to the streets. And now? I know change is slow to come, and is difficult, but I think that many people have become jaded (again), and have just resigned themselves to how it is. Your thoughts?
Interesting, and in my opinion, accurate evaluation of things in Brazil.
I do disagree though, about protests during the World Cup. I think that there will be protests. And I also think that there is a degree of complacency among citizens post protest. There was a wave of anger and people took to the streets. And now? I know change is slow to come, and is difficult, but I think that many people have become jaded (again), and have just resigned themselves to how it is. Your thoughts?
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Walking to work
Almost exactly a year ago, we moved to our new apartment. I love our new apartment. Here are some of the reasons why:
1. It's not infested with termites.
2. It's close to Dora's school.
3. It's not molding (yet).
4. It's spacious.
5. It's close to everything (bakery, bookstore, grocery, bank, fruit store, ice cream, etcetera)
6. It's relatively flat on our street.
7. The neighbors are nice and actually helpful
8. It's close to 2 of 3 Maple Bear campuses.
So I get to walk to work. I love walking to work. Today I saw this:
Yes, it's September 25th, time to start your Christmas shopping!! Especially for overpriced, kitschy snowmen decor.
And I saw this:
It looks like melons growing on the tree trunk. Any ideas of what it is? Cacau?
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Friday, September 13, 2013
Pronunciation guide
I love hearing how Brazilians pronounce foreign words. The above image is how Brazilians pronounce brand names. About a year ago I was listening to the radio, and I heard someone talking about the Brazil's "HONKING" in education, as in "o HONKING das escolas Brasileiras é...." It took me a good 5 minutes to realize that "HONKING" is the Brazilian portuguese pronunciation of ranking. Other good pronunciations:
delivery = deh leave a ree
Disney = jees knee
iPad = eye pad-gee
Tablet = tah bletch
Trash Pack (a toy my son likes) = trashy packy
rock and roll = hocking hole
iPad = eye pad-gee
Tablet = tah bletch
Trash Pack (a toy my son likes) = trashy packy
rock and roll = hocking hole
Any others that you like?
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Fazenda Cachoeira
Matt and I have talked about visiting a coffee farm ever since we moved to Brazil. We finally had the chance in July! We decided rather last minute, and because July is a very popular time to vacation, the place that many people had recommended to us wasn't available. So I had to go with what I could find on Google. And we got very, very lucky!
Fazenda Cachoeira is in Santo Antonio do Amparo in the south of Minas Gerais. Google maps says it is only 2 hours away which really means it is 3 hours away. Getting to Santo Antonio do Amparo was easy, and it's a nice road (because it's a toll road). It was a little tricky to find the Fazenda once we arrived in Santo Antonio, because there are no signs, and because we live in Brazil. But since we have now lived in Brazil for 3 years,
Mariana told us that the farm had been in her family for 5 generations. We stayed in the main house, which had been built in 1870 something. It had been renovated in the 1980s, but still had the Mineiro farmhouse charm. Wood furniture, big doorways, lace curtains, and old fashioned keys in the bedroom doors. There was a pool, hammocks, dogs, a game room with foosball and pool, waterfalls, hikes, beautiful views, bonfires at night, and horses. The kids couldn't get enough of the horses.
We rode them around the farm, to the waterfalls, around the farm again, and the around again. It was wonderful to watch the kids play outside, to get dirty, to run and laugh and explore. It was the first time I'd been out of Belo Horizonte since January, so it was so refreshing and restorative.
Matt and I got to take a tour of the farm with Mariana. It was fascinating to learn that Brazil is the largest producer of coffee in the world, and that Minas Gerais produces about 80% of all arabica coffee. We learned that for optimal production, coffee needs to to be planted at 1000 to 1100 meters above sea level. We saw the cherries being dried on the terraces, and learned that during drying, the coffee needs to be "raked" 10 times a day to dry uniformly. And of course, we drank some very delicious coffee.
| Matt raking the coffee |
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Sunday, September 8, 2013
Brazilian Independence Day
Yesterday was Brazilian Independence day. On September 7, 1822, the Portuguese prince Dom Pedro (who was living in Brazil) cried, "independência ou morte!" and shortly after became the leader of the Brazilian independence movement. How do Brazilians' celebrate their independence? From my informal survey, it seems like most other holidays/Sundays: lunch with family.
We didn't do anything particularly interesting, since we had a birthday party invitation and my husband had to play a concert (state orchestra+national holiday=husband works). But two things happened on Friday that made me feel like celebrating this wonderful, crazy place that we are calling home.
My oldest daughter started a new school this year. It's been a challenging transition, because she actually now has homework and expectations about what she is supposed to learn. This is good. One of the expectations is that she has to write 3 short essays every week. The topics vary, and some of them are as short as 4 sentences. But it has been a very difficult process to convince her that she can do it. In fact, just yesterday she spent 3 hours to write about 20 lines. Arg. But the good news is that her school had a Honors Assembly on Friday, and she received 2 awards. The first was because she has the best grades in Math in her class, and we knew that she was going to get this award. The second award was a surprise to us. In preparation for 7 do setembro, her class had to write an essay about Brazil and what it meant to them as Brazilians. My daughter wrote the best essay! Not only is she NOT a Brazilian, but she has only been speaking Portuguese for 3 years!!
And secondly, at the end of the assembly, Dora got to hold the flag. They principal started playing the Brazilian National Anthem, and Beatrice turns to me and says loudly in English, "I LOVE THIS MUSIC!!" Ah, love my little Brazilian children!
Monday, September 2, 2013
Porta dos Fundos in the New York Times
Opened up the NYTimes webpage today, and found the article on Brazil's most popular YouTube channel:
Sunday, September 1, 2013
Caixa d'agua?
And this got me thinking about the caixa d'agua. Practically every apartment building and house in Belo Horizonte has a caixa d'agua. Why is this? At first, I thought that these large water containers were the actual source of water for the residents, that is, a truck delivered water to the caixa d'agua. But how the heck does the water get from the truck to the top of the apartment? This is the faulty logic (stupidity) of the fresh-off-the-boat expat. But after 3 years of living here, I still haven't figured out why they exist in such abundance here. A brief google search didn't help much. But here are my guesses:
1. There used to be more frequent water outages. The caixa d'agua is a remnant from these days when the water would randomly go out, and was insurance that there would always be a supply of water.
2. Gravity. Perhaps there isn't enough water pressure coming from water from the street, so a roof top container will provide the gravity needed to pump that water through the pipes.
3. Dengue. Brazil really doesn't want to eradicate Dengue, and is committed to mosquito breeding.
Ok, that last theory is a little crazy. But most of what I found online were yahoo answers to questions like, "Why do I have to keep my caixa d'agua covered?" and "why is it important to clean my caixa d'agua?" Ewww.
That being said, I have experienced the cleaning of the caixa two times (last crappy apartment, and current nice apartment). We were without water for about an hour. That was more hardship than was experienced today. As far as I could tell, there was water all day, everywhere I went! The pool at the club! Nice long showers for all in our apartment today! Our neighbors hosing down the sidewalks in front of their apartments! The neighbor downstairs that ignores the rules and washes his car in the garage!
Anyone out there care to educate me about the caixa d'agua?
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